Rough.... and worth it:)

So I am getting married in 7 days from today. It has been a hard road for me and my future hubby. There have been many tears from us both. But even though we have struggled these last few months I know more then ever that we are meant to be together for all of eternity. I know that Troy is the man of dreams and reality. I am so excited for us to share our lives together and get to know each other on levels I didn't know could be possible. I also know that we are going to grow together and become better people in life because we have each other to lean on when times get rough. I was told that in married life " if you always put his needs before your own he will see that you do and do the same for you" I honestly believe that when you both have a goal to always respect and cherish one another then your marriage will be full of love. Although, LOVE is not the only thing marriage needs to help keep it strong and worth while. You also need trust, honesty, integrity, communication, understanding, and a willingness to let the other person grow to the best of thier potential. With Troy I believe that all of this is possible. No matter how much you love someone you will fight and bicker and blame the other when things go wrong. I don't think it is OK to be petty towards one another; you don't always have to be right. Enjoy the time you have together, having hard times makes the good times that much sweeter:) "Don't forget to create YOUR memories!"