My Future Husband..... Troy

Troy is the most amazing man I have ever met in my life. He is so wonderful in the way he handles things. He always tells me: " Heather you cant judge other people even when they judge you. You can choose how to react, but it is not your place to judge them." I am one to judge and he is always reminding me that it is not important for me to judge people. Just to try and love them. How would it be if I was in there shoes? He is intelligent in the gospel. He served his mission in Boston Massachusetts and he wants to go back one day to see all those who he was able to teach the gospel too. I want to go back to meet them have some of the same experience of what he sahred. I recently had the chance to meet a lady who had nothing but love for Troy because he came to knock on her door. I also was able to meet one of his companions who also had so many wonderful things to say about "Georgell" they shared so much together and I cant wait till I can do the same. He is also amazing at art! Oh his art, lol he is a great artist. He is extremely talented. I wish that I could be more like him, but I'm not. I think that is why we belong?! He completes me. I complete him. He helps me to be a bigger and better person in everything I do. He always is so caring and understanding and willing to listen before he makes his assessment of things. He loves to play ball and mess around. He is so easy going and I love it. I love him. He treats me like I am equal to him. He doesn't degrade me in anyway, shape or form. He is the one who holds me when I cry, who kisses my tears away, who sings my favorite songs to me. He holds my hand and is not afraid to kiss me in front of his friends. He cherishes me in ways I could have only Dreamed about, but now I don't have too. I am so proud of the man that he is and the man he is still becoming. I'm so happy with him. I am so very excited to be in his life and him in mine. I WONT live without him. He is my shelter, my sanctuary, the one gives me so much in life its self and the life after this. I try to say I love you as much as I can through out the day because you never know what life will throw your way. I don't want to regret a moment that I could have said " I LOVE YOU TROY" when I know I should have said it. With Troy life is better. He is my rock that I hold onto when I just cant take it anymore. Troy is my life, my future husband, the father of my future children, and my best friend. So for all the world to hear TROY I LOVE WITH EVERY FIBER OF MY BEING AND SO MUCH MORE THEN I CAN POSSIBLY EXPRESS! Thank you for choosing me:) " when your holding hands your never far apart"

Rough.... and worth it:)

So I am getting married in 7 days from today. It has been a hard road for me and my future hubby. There have been many tears from us both. But even though we have struggled these last few months I know more then ever that we are meant to be together for all of eternity. I know that Troy is the man of dreams and reality. I am so excited for us to share our lives together and get to know each other on levels I didn't know could be possible. I also know that we are going to grow together and become better people in life because we have each other to lean on when times get rough. I was told that in married life " if you always put his needs before your own he will see that you do and do the same for you" I honestly believe that when you both have a goal to always respect and cherish one another then your marriage will be full of love. Although, LOVE is not the only thing marriage needs to help keep it strong and worth while. You also need trust, honesty, integrity, communication, understanding, and a willingness to let the other person grow to the best of thier potential. With Troy I believe that all of this is possible. No matter how much you love someone you will fight and bicker and blame the other when things go wrong. I don't think it is OK to be petty towards one another; you don't always have to be right. Enjoy the time you have together, having hard times makes the good times that much sweeter:) "Don't forget to create YOUR memories!"